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Talk about beating some poor dead horse.
Did this blog actually go on for like 200 comments on that poor women's dress size. Seriously.
We all know she is pathological. Why were we debating something sooo freaking long that really held no freaking merit anyway. So who hasn't shaved a few pounds off on their drivers license? She's a four, no she's a 12. Who the hell cares?
I think it has been said here, like I don't know, 50 times??? We don't care about her domestic skills. Just her lies. Frankly, I think I put her to shame. I could make Martha Stewart look lazy. You want domestic tips ladies ask Vera. You want tips on how to keep your man ("MAN" not hubby, cause that's just freakin stupid.) Ask Vera. And I'll put it to you straight.
On to a real comment about Candy. We don't care if she worshiped pigs on her front lawn, but don't damn the rest of the us to hell in the process. Accept the fact that you might not know everything. Accept the fact that just because the book you chose to read TODAY isn't the one sure source of knowledge in the universe. For example our latest read on how we got the bible. Are you really that blind? I think we all know the answer to that. She custom made those blinders herself with a direct order from her God, (not our God, cause I bow to a loving, all accepting one.)
But hey sometimes life is easier with blinders on. And Vera doesn't blame her that. Vera actually found the whole Candy site humorous. Found it entertaining. Found her a wee bit full of herself, condescending and arrogant, but funny as hell to watch. It was my favorite internet show.
Then I had a friend start this one. And now the reruns her are starting to kill me.
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Kaira...I don't think you should leave this site because you disagree with some of the things that are being said. You have complete and total right to comment on what you think. Don't let others run you off...stand up for what you believe in. That's what this site it about.
But in defense of these people...they are right on the money with some of their comments. This sight has never claimed to be Christian in nature.
When you open your mouth and say something controversial...expect backlash. Backlash by people who can be nice about it. Backlash by people who can be downright nasty. And that is what Candy and her minions have done. They have opened their mouth and they need to face that decision. Candy is causing people to hate Catholics with her anti-Catholic postings and so that makes her no better than anyone else here.
I am a Christian. I profess it from my rooftop. But...I'm also a dirty rotten sinner. I smoke, occasionally drink, cuss at times, suffer from road rage everyday, yell at my kids, fuss at my husband. I can be lazy some days. And some days...I can be downright nasty. But, my God loves me the same.
On the other hand...I'm not so bad. I tithe, I give to the needy, I help out at soup kitchens and homeless shelters during the holidays. I'm nice to most people. I pray mutliple times a day. I read my Bible daily. I only listen to Christian music. I homeschool my children in a Christian manner. I love everything about Christianity. And my God loves the unsaved and members of other religions just as much as he loves me.
Candy is causing major damage. She refuses to post "unrespectful" comments. She sets herself and other like her on pedestal. She preaches intolerance and hatred. That is not acceptable. How do you fight someone like her? On this site right here. So call me ungodly. That's fine. I'm not offended or upset. I just cannot see an injustice occur without standing up and fighting it. Wrong or right...that's not my gig.
The Big Guy will judge my actions in Glory. I own my statements and I take full responsbility for my actions. I know what I do is wrong. But...I'm not blinded enough to to call what I'm doing God's work. Sometimes...you have fight fire with fire...like it or not. That just life. I'm not going to sit by idly while people are being trashed.
Peace Love and Chicken Grease!!!
There was some discussion a little while ago, about posting testimony that IFB theology can, and has, damaged relationships and people's faith.
I thought this article might be relevant:
Coming out of Fundamentalism
The writer specifically says
Fear was driving us. We hopped from church to church. We felt condemned, overwhelmed, unworthy and as if we had this long lists of dos and don’ts that we couldn’t possibly keep up with. We were scared to reveal to one another that we thought maybe something was seriously wrong with all of it.
Uh-huh - exactly. The ones I have known personally have an air of superiority. They walk around with unhappy, drawn, disapproving looks on their smug faces watch others for signs of sin. And this was in a CHURCH.
Hehe...love your meez character KBG. You are such a ho.
yo bet yo mama ima ho sweepin!
:-)
Can I ask a question? Why is it that those who oppose this site get on here and act all dramatic?
I get these Tallulah Bankhead images of much flipping of the hair and "I'm DONE with this site!" and "Carry on, as I know you will!"
And, of course, then they come back.
It just humors me in my sick sarcastic sense of humor.
*Walking across the floor, wringing my hands, breathing shallowly* "Because (saying this as I throw myself against the wall and with my arm across my forehead) you people must understand the full import of your words on my life and the lives of others. You cannot be allowed to continue to run amok in our polite society - corrupting our children!"
Ahem.
Exactly.
As The World Turns.
I see Kiara is back with her wacky antics!
She never makes sense, so don't even try to reason with her.
Candy's latest comments:
The night before last night, I alternated between reading and watching a documentary, while hubby did some work on his laptop, doing wild, advanced math for his job.
Erik is now doing "advanced math" for his job.
Did he get a promotion?
What is "wild advanced math?"
2+4+9+12+3+9+8+7+2-9-7-4+3=____????
Hello, I found your site by doing a search through Yahoo.
It is very entertaining.
Is that the purpose of it?
oh look - another one
I'd say the purpose is pretty straightforward. And judging by your name, I'd say you understand just fine.
OMGoodness, peeps, she's got a companion blog! Go check it out!
From the same comment:
My 8yr old read the book in one day and liked it very much. In fact, if anyone is using "The Story of the World" for history home school, I recommend they have their child read this book, after finishing volume 2.
We use SOTW, but I don't think this book passes CM's "twaddle" test. We'll skip it, thanks.
I am continually amazed that of ALL the history curricula available, she chose SOTW (just like me!).
SOTW 1 starts out 7000 years ago with the first nomads, then progresses to the nomads learning to grow food, the first irrigation, and so on.
There's not a dinosaur in sight.
"I am disturbed about the fact that a Christian woman is being verbally stoned for her religious beliefs because they do not comply with the opinions of others."
I am disturbed by the fact that an ENTIRE RELIGIOUS SYSTEM is being verbally stoned for their beliefs b/c they do not comply with the opinions of Candy.
Hi, Candy... welcome back! But, really, we're all adults here, you can use your prayzgod name.
I am not criticizing Candy because her beliefs don't agree with mine.
I am criticizing her because she presents a false front, is inconsistent, and feels she has the power to declare who is saved and not saved. Her theology is flawed, and she is deceiving people. Also, she attacked me long before this blog ever came about
Although, that blog is an ingenious way to glean off the traffic from this site. Nice of her to stop by and alert us to its presence!
Is a verbal stoning worse than lashing with a wet noodle?
How do you make a unibrow clown roll his eyes? Where's the cyber clown specialist?
I suppose Candy is courageous, in a way. it must take enormous amounts of courage to post outrageous lies, whilst knowing they are going to be torn apart by anyone with an ounce of common sense, basic historical knowledge, or the ability to use Google (or even Yahoo!).
Isn't that sweet that she started another blog to encourage herself?
Although, it was nice to see the feed widget and know who else was on her site. Hi Clare! How was it over there? Yeah, I thought so too.
*< oD . .
eyes rolling out of his head
You're welcome.
So, since no one really answered, I guess nobody knows what the purpose of this blog is?
Please don't take my commenting here as an intrusion, I only was curious about what the intent of this blog was.
I have no ill will toward anyone and I mean no harm, so please don't think that I've come here to cause trouble. I want no such thing.
Well, Candy, if you check out the front page of the blog and read the intro, that's where you'll find the purpose.
Candy Is Courageous said...
So, since no one really answered, I guess nobody knows what the purpose of this blog is?
Please don't take my commenting here as an intrusion, I only was curious about what the intent of this blog was.
Oh my goodness (insert a screaming clown here)!
"Oh my goodness (insert a screaming clown here)!"
ROFL.
The night before last night, I alternated between reading and watching a documentary, while hubby did some work on his laptop, doing wild, advanced math for his job.
Erik is now doing "advanced math" for his job.
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no....that's 'wild" advanced math!!
ROFL snort
you're killin me
Wild advanced math? That's a new one!! ROFL!
I'm not even going there...
Curious to know what she considers advanced.
Curtis explained it above:
2+4+9+12+3+9+8+7+2-9-7-4+3=____????
Curtis:
I have no idea who caw is... I just do not think it is Candy.
*<]:0@
Screaming Clown
doing wild, advanced math for his job.
Maybe he was filling out a Schedule C?
Nah.
I love math and think it can be wildly fun, sometimes.
Especially the quadratic formula. So neat and tidy. So fun.
I can't help it. Some people come from pioneer stock. Some people are bluebloods.
I sprung from a long line of engineers.
Oh Look, I am soo scared.... Look what CAE left in my pm box at meez... Isn't he or she a darling? Who really has an issue here, me or this person? I really do not think this is Candy. Candy would have left me an email. I like Candy. This person however, I just do not know. I think she has it out for me, Thoughts?
"There are so many things
I would love to say to you, but being a Christian woman, I can't say them.
You, however, seem to have no problem spewing forth hatred out of your wide open trap.
Like I said, if your friends over at Prairie Homemaker are not already aware of how you truly are, they will know soon. I will make sure of that.
I hope you know that our entire little spat would not have happened if you would just have left me alone. But no, you had to push, and push , and push.
Then, when I left my last message at CIC, you had to push further. Do you have no conscience?
I hope and pray that you never receive a taste of your own medicine, because it is truly hurtful."
If you are such the Christian woman, how can you even have a naked meez? You have such hatred, you really ought to pray about that.
PH is a place where I post a lot it is a great message board. Oh and Catholics are welcome:)
milehi, can you do my taxes at the end of the year? Pretty please?
I am horrible with numbers. Some people have a mind for science and math, other people, like me, took algebra twice in high school, failing the first time and just sliding through the second. Then, I took basic math, then algebra in college - all with no credit because it was "refresher" or whatever - and then quantitative learning (a fancy way of saying all math all the time). I couldn't tell you anything I learned in any of them. Those skills never penetrated my brain.
Gee, look at me, not only admitting my failures, but not being embarrassed by them either. I'm so not embarrassed I beg for help at every turn.
I work freelance, meaning I am responsible for everything from SS taxes to state to personal income to - well, everything.
Every year, I dump the pile on a friend and bribe them to help me. Last year, I did spring clean up in a friends yard. Three days of back breaking labor, but it was sooooo worth it not to have to look at or think about all those numbers!
Ginger - looks like you got yourself a cyber stalker. What kind of 'spat' did you two have?
Ginger, the tone of that person sounds like an email exchange the persons on Candyland have had with a cyber stalker. Same tone, verbage, everything. I wouldn't even respond.
I just deleted a comment I wrote yesterday. I came across new information, and felt the comment might be especially hurtful to Candy personally, which was not my intention.
I just didn't want anyone to think I was trying to hide anything!
"There are so many things
I would love to say to you, but being a Christian woman, I can't say them.
That's my fave line from Wizard of Oz!
I'm going to be doing freelancer taxes for the first time this year. Wish me luck!
I'm going to have to consult an accountant at some point, I can't find the answer to my particular question online. I hate to spend the $ just to ask a dumb question, but I guess I gotta!
Tia, I'll tell you what. You take my kids for a week and I'll spend that time doing your taxes. And going on a cruise.
See ya in March!
I wrote back and said I was soo skeered..... I am so not worried. I basically asked her to begin had to do with her comment about make up and whores.... I do not remember my exact words.
Ginger, I'd call the FBI if I were you ;)
Ok so I have to say something. IFB does not damaging to relationships. The way some people choose to use it is. I am IFB and as many of you know I am not judgemental at all. I find it a little insulting when I see people talking about IFB is damaging or fundies are this or that. Just like I do not think you should be judged for being Catholic I also do not feel that I should be judged for being IFB>
we so need edit on comments. That should be is not damaging not does not damging.
Wow! S/he talks about not saying anything, then says how full of hatred Ginger is.. then unloads LOL
So much for being a Christian. I'll stick to calling myself Catholic!
I use to post at PH... it's a great site. I"m sure the other women there would she very shocked at your email to Ginger!! I am!
*****
I hope you know that our entire little spat would not have happened if you would just have left me alone. But no, you had to push, and push , and push.
Aww... someone felt threatened and relatiated! What happened to turn thy cheek, oh Christian??
Then, when I left my last message at CIC, you had to push further. Do you have no conscience?
HUH? It's a blog.. anyone can post whateva they want!
I hope and pray that you never receive a taste of your own medicine, because it is truly hurtful."
Uh.. maybe you need a dose of YOURS to see just how "vile and nasty" you are to a fellow person!
You are totally right Cajun. Everyone is different. Please accept my apology.
Cajun,
I hear ya.. I hate when people lump a group together. Granted, I don't have much experience with IFB and relationships, etc.. but I still don't like lumping. There are always extremes in everything.
Cajun,
I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings. I officially amend my statements to be more explicit - Candy's BRAND of IFB. Sometimes my shorthand/nicknames are TOO short!
BTW, totally off subject but on record now.
I had a nice chat with ANOA and Candy in ANOA's room, about Charlotte Mason. I told her about the timeline I am making in our schoolroom, which has a picture of Jesus at 0 AD, the "hingepoint" of history. I got that idea of a book/website I can't remember now (I think it may have been Catholicmom.com?)
Just sayin'.
I've missed a lot this morning. It's always interesting when a new face pops in here. I looked at that Candy is Courageous blog, and she writes about this blog, so she apparently knows the purpose (of course she adds an evil spin to it), so why is she asking? I guess to stir the pot.
The conversation with Kaira was interesting (I was wondering where she had gone off to). To be honest and I want to keep it real, I have really liked having her around here. She asks some challenging questions, and I think she speaks the truth about trying to be the best Christian she can be, but she's not looking down her nose. I think some people overreact a little to her comments, and to be fair, why does she have to be under such strict rules when most people here are allowed to say whatever's on their mind without repercussion? (sp?)
Is this when I should run and duck for cover? I really don't want to make anyone mad. These are just my feelings on the matter.
My motivation for being at this site (and this is going to seem so sickeningly Pollyanna-ish) is to reach across the divide and find a sense of unity between Catholics and Christians. When it comes to Candy, the only thing she does that gets my panties in a twist is acting like her personal religious choices and ways to worship are superior to everyone else's. I don't care what her "to do" list looks like. It's just a list- doesn't mean she gets it all done, and if she does or doesn't, I don't really care. Thankfully there are so many bloggers out there that keep it real, so the moms that feel down on themselves can find that information and feel good about themselves. I would imagine that Candy's blog isn't the only one they are reading. The first time I read her blog (finding it purely by accident looking for chore charts), I was thinking, "This is one industrious woman!" But I never felt like I needed to keep up with her. I just find it interesting to see what other women are out there doing. I guess I'm a bit of a "peeping mom." :) Anyway, I found out there was a problem when I started looking at the sidebars of her site, and then I was hit smack in the face with the "Whore of Babylon" essay. Like I said before, that's when I got angry and I started questioning Candy. I wondered where all the other Catholics were, and come to find out, they'd fought the same battle with her I did, got the same result and realized that conversations with her are futile. I was thrilled to find those people at VTC, and then this site has been incredibly addicting, kind of like a soap, as someone before mentioned.
I have felt spiritually challenged by reading at Candy's blog (feeling some real anger), reading here, and commenting here and to Candy herself. I even went to confession about it. I'm like, "Father, this may be a first for you..." LOL He told me that it is important to defend our faith, but we have to have compassion for people that don't understand and ask ourselves how Jesus would respond. I have been carrying that with me for the last couple weeks, and it has helped a lot.
I think it's awesome to see the turnaround with words exchanged between people here and Ginger. I have had private conversations with her and Amy (motherofmany) awhile back, and even though we never ended up making perfect peace, I feel better when I can get what I feel out on the table. I like Ginger, I have been able to comment at Amy's site and received respectful treatment, I like Kaira, and I have fun talking with all of you here. I may not fit in perfectly, but I can appreciate what everyone has to offer. I am just working on how much time I'm spending looking at this screen as opposed to spending time with my kids. With that, I should probably go clean up lunch dishes.
Now that's one big pile of vomit as CANJY would put it- see if you can pick something out. :)
Well I've been out, so I've just skimmed the comments and might have missed something.
A few points in brief.
You are all aware that CandyIsCourageous is Caw right?
When I checked she had linked there ( perhaps she was linked to Ginger before that and changed the link by the time I checked?)
How extraordinary that she makes her disingenuity so obvious ('I mean no trouble' etc.)
Whoever CAW is, the Christian thing is a sham. She may have made an intellectual assent to belief in Jesus, but her heart is far from God. Yes. I AM judging. I call it discernment and it's what we're meant to do.
Christians are not meant to be a bunch of saps who are happily suckered in by anyone who parrots scripture or talks about Christ.
People who love God have a cardinal characteristic. They are LOVERS (in the fullest sense of the word)
CAW may be hilariously ROFL funny. But she is nasty and she delights in it.
And she's nasty in the name of Jesus. As she knows 'many will say 'Lord Lord'.
I wouldn't like to be in her shoes.
Hey. Newsflash. My mums just called over. Back with more points in due course...
Cajun, you and Candy might both be IFBs, but there is no way I'd ever intentionally lump you in the same category. My appologies if I have done so inadvertantly.
while I am not IFB, we are very close to it and conservative, even more then normal IFB..
CIC is Caw! Caw!?
Well, that certainly explains why she deleted all of her comments here. We might see the new blog on her profile and put two and two together.
And just a pleasant reminder to all, including CIC, that I have saved all of CawCaw's comments.
BTW, wow, that I did not realize that Caw and CIC were the same person. Props to the person who figured it out.
CiC, do you wear one of those neat-o keen super hero outfits? With a big CiC on the front?
my newest message from my special darling.
"You are a boil on the ass of humanity. A big, fat, nasty, pus filled boil.
Someone from CIC emailed me and told me that you posted my message to you on the blog.
Did you really think I didn't expect that? Why do you think I sent you a message in the first place? You are my puppet. Each and every time you have done EXACTLY what I expected. I'm actually growing quite bored now.
I've been in email contact with a few of the ladies from PH. I shared a few of our chat transcripts and some other information.
I am assuming you have not heard from them yet. But don't worry, you will.
By the way, last night you told me you were shaking in your boots...it's not your boots that I feel sorry for. It's the waist on your outfit. Elastic can stretch, but it can't work miracles, honey.
I've been checking out your blog through the Google archives. In particular, I noticed your photo. You remind me of Jaba the Hut from Star Wars, only less attractive.
Superior to your physical ugliness, though, is your internal ugliness. You are a mean spirited person who uses Christianity to cloak their real behavior. You will be found out. That's not a threat, that's a promise.
Take your time running over to the CIC site to post this....if you go too fast, those thunder thighs rubbing together could cause a fire."
oh and this is all supposed to be a joke... Sure isn't on me. I can assure you on that.
Wow, if the fact that she is a "good Christian woman" is all that's holding her back, I wonder what she'd really like to say.
Hugs, Ginger. No one deserves what she said to you. Honestly, I'm perplexed as to why she's being so cruel to you. Any number of us over here have said far worse things about Candy. And you've certainly never come close to saying anything that cruel about anyone.
Well isn't that little no-nothing just the nastiest little cockroach around? And this person is Caw!/CiC? Am I understanding this right?
This is getting really confusing.
Ginger, do you want me to wrestle this person for you? I would be glad to do it....we can have a 'smack down'!
What's this PH thing she/he/it keeps talking about?
Oh Ginger...that's horrible. I'm sorry that someone said something like that to you. I am a uber confindent plus sized woman who hates it that people think that making fun of our weight can get our goats up. Stupid Stupid little people. Do they not realize that most of us pleasantly plump people are ok with being this way? I am assuming that you are ok with being insulted about your weight...correct?
But now onto something else. What does CIC mean? Candy is Crazy or Candy is Courageous?
Never mind, I figured it out all by lil ol' self.
Wow, Caw! Caw! is still crowing, huh? Ginger, you know how those ol' birds are jealous and jump on any shiny thing, right?
Well, personally, I think that CIC might be short for Candy is a C-- oh, wait. That's not very charitable.
(I do want to make clear, though, that the above was based upon the assumption that CIC/Caw=Candy. If, in fact, Candy and Caw/CIC are NOT the same person, I appologize, quite sincerely to Candy.)
And can I just say I LOVE Hillbilly Housewife?
PH is an awesome message board, they will not put up with this kind of mess I can guarantee that. There is a link on my blog to the place. I love my friends there. You will never see ungodliness from anyone on there and the owner will never tolerate any behaviors such as that has been seen by this person. She is quick to not allow trolls in. I also do not believe this person has been in email contact with anyone there because the emails are private there. She would have to be apart of the board. If she is, she certainly good at masking herself.
kentucky, thanks hun, I am so not worried, about this person. If it makes her feel better to talk trash, then she certainly can. I do not think even Candy would put up with this trash.
Mile I love HBH!!
Ginger, I'm so sorry you had to read that ugliness. Praying for peace for you.
Old Fashioned Education... HOW HAVE I NEVER SEEN THIS SITE?!!!
I use that WordMastery program in our school!
I'm going into my third year of using Old Fashioned Education. The school books are not dumbed down and they really challenge my kids.
Miss Maggie has put together one excellent education curriculum together over there. Words can't explain the gratitude that I have for her.
And the best part...it's FREE!! I've spent a grand total of $100 per year on my children's curriculum because of Miss Maggie. That includes ink and printer paper. It's better than Ambleside Online. Everything need and tidy and the shedules are right there for you too.
Ginger- that message left for you left my stomach sick. I can't believe someone can call themselves Christian and then spew such ugliness. I'm guessing she is a believer in OSAS- she said her sinner's prayer, and now she can do whatever she wants and not be held accountable. Behavior like this is all a reasonable person needs to question the OSAS theory.
And it is just me, but does the "A friend from (fill in your own answer) site emailed me privately and told me that you... blah, blah, blah" sound familiar to anyone?
Just when I'm convinced this person isn't actually Candy, she says something that is so like Candy. Either she really is Candy in disguise, or she has the capacity to be clever to get us wondering. I hate that I even wonder about this stuff.
If CAW!CAW! is "April" and CAW!CAW! is CIC...what is this person up to?
Nasty letters to Ginger. Postings that aren't funny and she says they are a joke. Another poster taking up for her because they know each other personally (Kaira?). All of the focus today has been off of Candy and her latest mistake (posting info as factual but yet cannot be proven in historical documents).
Sounds like some big conspiracy to me. One of Candy's minions starts an issue unrelated to Candy, we take off after her, Candy is not bothered being hounded by us for answers and she doesn't do a thing and comes out smelling like roses.
Someone is playing a game. But the question is...Which one is really behind it. Candy? Kaira? ANOA? Fruity? Wunderhubby? Or is there another player in this game?
We need some super sleuths on the case...any volunteers?
Angie...I don't think this has anything to do with OSAS. Like I said, my church/dem believes it but doesn't hold it as a 'high holy' must believe.
I stick with my original theory: pudgy little lechy pervert, having an affair with his computer surrounded by fast food wrappers, his KJV Bible and an occasional cruise thru the porn sites.
Whatcha say Caw!/Cic? You did run around nekkid in the HoDome last night.
Angie,
Everytime I start thinking that this mystery person is not Candy, something happens (as in a phrase is written) that is classic Candy.
Ginger really believes this person is not Candy and I believe that Ginger is sincere. I just keep having my doubts.
Oh!! I forgot about CAW!CAW! running around naked!!
Oh yes....the epitome of style and grace
Where are you Caw!/Cic!!! Do I need a bigger stick for the little opposum under the rock?
Just so you all know, there is someone that comments on this site that does email people that are being talked about. Someone among you stirs the pot and then acts innocent. I think she is a "game" player. You know who you are.
Do you know who it is?? Please share? Reveal the scoundrel!
Yes please! Milehi can you give us a suspicious looking clown?
Interesting. The plot thickens again!!
Now...we will all be wondering who in the world is doing this.
Super Sleuths to the rescue!! Handy Dandy Notebook, magnifying glass, pipe out the mouth. Watson at my feet...never mind...my assistant's name is actually Winston, but he's an English Bulldong...wasn't Watson English? Locked and loaded and ready for some mystery!!!
But as far as someone stirring up trouble...let 'em...I stand behind everything I say. It's public. If I don't want it known...I keep my mouth shut on the subject.
Wow. What did I miss that made Ginger the target of some unbalanced person?
And, an unbalanced person who thinks *were* bad people?
I honestly wonder about people, I really do.
Ginger, just keep the PM's and copies of everything / anything else. Don't retaliate, don't engage. People like that are looking for attention and trouble. Don't give it. It's not worth it.
For all the supposed faults of everyone here, I have no doubt that we're all better than that.
And, if someone is stirring the pot, I guess they have to live with their choices and deal with their conscience, not us. At least what we say is out in the open for all to see.
Does anyone find it funny that this person "had a friend email about Ginger posting the first PM here?"
Isn't that how Candy supposedly gets all her information? From a "friend" sending her an email, since, you know, she doesn't bother reading here?
I tell you what folks. This kind of asinine behavior is a huge part of the reason I have no tolerance for such "Christians". They give the actual faith of Christianity a bad name and are unfortunately, in my experience, the ones with the biggest mouths, therefore garnering the most attention. Way to take down an entire belief system with idiotic, insufferable behavior. Or, try.
I just went back to look at one the old posts by Catholics are delicious and yes Clare, you are correct, she is Candy is courageous. It links to her site.
It wont be there long (I'm sure she'll go back and delete now) but go back to the last post and scroll through the comments and you'll see hers.
Very deceptive of her.
Here is my game. I will give little clues here and there. Most of you are extremely bright and will figure it out.
BusyMom is not the scoundral, but she just might be in the right direction. It is buried deep in this site, but many of you ignored it so long ago.
Tia - if you are on the thought process I think you are...put it in full speed.
Oh, and by the way, I am not coming right out and saying who it is because this is not my blog and while I believe Matthew was about to address this person before his hiatus, I will wait until he gets back and let him do it.
I love a good mystery. I still do not think it is Candy. I have another pm, I have not read it as of yet because I am busy but I am saving them and I will also post, to keep a record.
The last clue for a while. I am leaving for a few hours. While the "game" player I speak of is not Candy, I believe she has something to do with this person.
Well, serves me right for waiting too long to check things out.
By the time I read through all the comments and went to visit the "CIC" or whatever it's called, it's gone.
Is anyone surprised?
My mums just gone and tragically I've hopped straight back on here. This is definitely better than the telly, but I no longer have any right to sneer at anyone who watches breakfast telly in their pyjamas ( yes I'm a snob that way!)
*insert snooty blushing clown*
I have to say the email that Ginger recieved gave me the chills. Quite why she is the target for this vitriol eludes me. Unless CAW/CIC is Candy.
Whatever, she is clearly loving the attention this is garnering.
I must say Ginger, I'm kind of impressed with the way you're handling this. Under that headscarf and frock there's quite a backbone. Good for you.
I know you said you liked Candy earlier. I don't believe she's authentic, i think you are. I don't have many spiritual gifts, but I have a 'nose' for that.
For you Rudybug... 1st of 4 posts by Candy is Courageous
Sunday, August 3, 2008
A brief history
Several years ago I began reading the blog of a beautiful Christian woman named Candy. Candy is beautiful both inside and out, and she is a great example of how living your life for Christ can touch others. Candy has been fearless in discussing what she does and does not believe to be true regarding religion. She has come under fire for this, when all she has done is state her opinion, which is the right of every human being.
Over the past few months, several blogs and websites have been created with the sole purpose of humiliating this woman. They mock, they taunt, and they hurt. Some take it even further by stalking this poor woman. These are not bad people running these sites. I would guess that they have been hurt as well, and they are acting out in anger. I do not feel, however, that hurt should be dealt with by returning hurt. The Bible tells us:
"But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also. "
Matthew 5:39 (KJV)
If we are hurt or offended by someone, we are not to offend them back. We are simply to accept the offense and move on. Christ did not offend anyone while he was hanging from that cross. He could have cursed, called names, yelled and mocked, but he didn't. If he can go through all he went through and not be cruel or act out in anger, then surely we can keep our composure about religious opinion!
2nd post by CIC
Saturday, August 9, 2008
Does size really matter?
One of the topics of late about Candy has been speculation over her dress size. People have been chatting back and forth about what size they think she wears, and whether or not they think she has been truthful about it.
As far as what dress size a person wears, does this really matter? In the Kingdom of God, there are no dress sizes. Fortunately, God does not look at our outer appearances, but rather our hearts.
In regards to lying about one's dress size, a lie is a lie, no matter how you dress it up. We are to tell the truth at all times, no matter how hard that may be. However, we are all human, too. As a woman who is not in the same shape she was before having children, I can attest to the fact that it would be nice to be my old size again. I have not had to lie about my size because, fortunately, nobody cares. :-) The best way to deal with this situation would be to just not talk about it.
Candy is a beautiful woman and a wonderful mother. She is obviously in great shape, and I think she looks fantastic.
3rd post by CIC
Aren't we all entitled?
Some people seem to dislike Candy because they feel that she demands everyone believe what she believes.
Likewise, I have seen people who disagree with Candy, demand that Candy believes what they do.
What does this accomplish? Are we not all entitled to our opinions?
4th and final post before deletion by CIC
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Why "Candy is Courageous"?
The title of this blog was probably the easiest thing to decide on. Candy is firm in her faith and states her opinions without flinching. To stand up for what you believe in, right in the face of your adversaries, is no easy task. I believe that Candy is one of the most courageous people I know.
She and I do not agree on everything, nor should we. God made us all different. How boring would this world be if we were all the same?
So, please do not mistake this blog for something that it is not. I am here to try and understand, not to put people down. I do not believe that any one person is right, I believe we are all flawed human beings. Isn't it great to know that the Lord loves us anyway?
This was the opening line to the blog by CIC
I am disturbed about the fact that a Christian woman is being verbally stoned for her religious beliefs because they do not comply with the opinions of others. It is my hope that Candy and the people who are trying to make Candy's life miserable will learn compassion for one another.
"And forgive thy people that have sinned against thee, and all their transgressions wherein they have transgressed against thee, and give them before them who carried them captive, that they may have compassion on them"
1 Kings 8:50
Personally I find all this interesting coming from the mouth of a person who felt it was ok to send such nasty emails to Ginger.
Can anyone say hypocrite?
Oh by the way. I DID leave a comment on Candys blog, but not the one that was posted. Perhaps that was another Clare,a Clare entirely inferior in quality and lacking the wit, intelligence, beauty...ahem, humility, of the real thing. Or maybe it was someone being mischeivous.
The comment I left wasn't posted, quelle surprise!
I posted it here a while back, but here it is again. Very lame and inoffensive really. Or 'vile and rediculous'? You be the judge:
Hi candy, I LOVE learning about church history so this was interesting to me.
I was intrigued about your comments about the Vaudois but I can't find ANY reliable source information for that ( beyond second hand info and that is mainly on sites with a particular doctrinal leaning)
I think it's really important to think for ourselves and not just take 'someone word for it'
I'm sure you agree.
I'd really appreciate a credible source for the Vaudois information as, if it is true, it is fascinating indeed.
Many thanks, Clare
Rudy, Thanks for posting those. That has to be Candy or the person that I know emails people to tell them when they are being talk about. I am glad we all know to cut and paste immediately on these types of people because they get delete happy fast.
Oh, and I am "Brutilda" that is posting tonight. I need to start signing it, as not to get confused with the other two.
Wow. I have not been paying much attention today. I will have to go through and read again... and figure out who this mystery emailer is! hmmm...
Ginger, I am sorry you have become the one to take the brunt of this. These messages you have received are just ... awful. I cannot put it to words.
Well, Clare, it is obvious to me why that wasn't posted. It was vile and nasty. What can of person would ask for a credible source? Shameful, I say.
Bru
Oh Dora how clever of you!
What foresight to copy all that before it disappeared.
How revealing to set that beside Gingers emails.The same writer. Honestly...
I have come to believe that for all its truth and beauty 'religion' is also the devils playground. If I hear one more lofty comment about the behaviour of the 'unsaved' and the nasty candy bashers I think I might 'LOL' and 'ROFL' and 'ROFLMAO' SO loud and SO long you'll hear me all the way across the broad Atlantic.
Yes please! Milehi can you give us a suspicious looking clown?
Sorry, hubs got hurt at work and I had to fly.
*<]}80!
Caw! Caw! -
BusyMom is not the scoundral
Stick to CAD, it's easier to spell. Or check other posts who just used that same word and spelled it correctly.
Here is my game. I will give little clues here and there.
Somebody's been watching V for Vendetta too much. Sorry, you're not Natalie Portman OR Angelina Jolie.
K. Done with Caw!Caw! for tonight, the cad.
I posted some other stuff about the KTH post today - anyone wanna dig in?
And the award for wackjob of the year goes to...
*drumroll*
CAE/CAW/CAD/Candy/Candycandy...
Whatever.
They can't be serious. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but this dude/dudette has some serious mental issues going on.
Get help!
Clare, I'm in Australia and I thought I could hear thunder across the sky. Good to know it was actually the rumble of laughter coming all the way from your place.
Under that headscarf and frock there's quite a backbone.
In America, it takes quite a backbone to get INTO the headscarf to begin with.
Sorry Bru - my last post about V for Vend.
In the furor, I didn't notice it was CIC posting and not Cae/cad/canj/ whatevah!
I still say you watch too much tv.
:)
See the smiley face? That means I don't mean that in a VIAL way.
*<]|80!
Clare, why do you keep pestering Candy over and over agian, demanding to know why she didn't post your comment?
Or, perhaps her internet had another "lapse" wherein only YOUR comment did not get posted.
MileHi - Is your husband okay?
"
Candy Is Courageous said...
So, since no one really answered, I guess nobody knows what the purpose of this blog is?
Please don't take my commenting here as an intrusion, I only was curious about what the intent of this blog was.
I have no ill will toward anyone and I mean no harm, so please don't think that I've come here to cause trouble. I want no such thing.
August 14, 2008 12:09 PM "
Just wanted to grab this and repost before it goes 'poof' too.
Another example of stunningly creepy disingenuity.
yehaw, its a good thing I posted CAE's pm here cause they are gone now from my mail box. So interesting.
Also, this person deleted their meez... I wonder who they will become next?
hmmm...wonder if they will show up in the HoDome tonight?
Hey, I'm going to host a New Kids on the Block concert in my meez room tonight.
10pm eastern
www.meez.com/rudybug
I'm feeling retro :-)
And in backwards unchronological order, here is the first Candy is courageous posting:
" August 14, 2008 11:49 AM
Blogger Candy Is Courageous said...
Hello, I found your site by doing a search through Yahoo.
It is very entertaining.
Is that the purpose of it?
August 14, 2008 11:51 AM"
I can almost 'hear' a breathy little girl voice, I can picture a face, wide eyed and full of innocent curiosity, entirely devoid of any malintent. A sweet stranger who has stumbled, by chance, into this drama. An Alice lost in some alternate wonderland. Washed ashore from a yahoo mystery tour.
I think we can expect a return visit in an alternate persona very soon.
"I can almost 'hear' a breathy little girl voice, I can picture a face, wide eyed and full of innocent curiosity, entirely devoid of any malintent. A sweet stranger who has stumbled, by chance, into this drama. An Alice lost in some alternate wonderland. Washed ashore from a yahoo mystery tour."
Okay, now that's just not fair. I almost choked on my sunflower kernels, LOL. :-)
Kentucky,
Yes, he's fine. He's settled happily in front of The Young and the Planetless, aka Smallville so I'm free for a bit.
10 stitches, though.
Thanks!
Hello, I found your site by doing a search through Yahoo.
OK new thread. What search term did she/he/it use?
Glad to hear all is well Mile.
Rudy,
Did you soak those sunflower kernels first? In kefir?
Today, Candy posts:
where we sang some songs, then heard some major ON FIRE preaching by evangelist Gerald Fielder. Billy Graham can eat his heart out.
Wow. Just...wow.
And, a quick Google search turned up free MP3's and tapes for sale by Bro. Gerald Fielder, a preacher from Mississippi. I guess he *is* an Internet guy, after all. I'm assuming it's the same one, since he brags about saving Roman Catholics in his sermons.
No, I am ashamed to say, I didn't soak my sunflower kernels.
But I sucked the salt off of them before I chewed them up, does that count?
FWIW, I'm guessing that Kaira is the spy/emailer. Strictly a guess.
oh NKOTB, they were so my fav....
We are in the HoDome.....Join US
for the record, I also do not think kaira is the spy here...
I am starting a new thread.
I am the same April B that has commented on Candy's blog. The last comment I left was in total disagreement with that post on keeping the children with you during church.
Good Morning Guys!
It looks like I missed alot (again) while I was away.
"BusyMom is not the scoundral"
Have I overlooked something? Did someone suggest that I was the scoundrel and I didn't see it. I noticed some deleted comments...let me guess...our good friend CAW!CAW!/CIC/whatever?
Can someone bring up to speed?
If I wasn't addicted to The Olympics...I would be aware of what happend here last night. Shame on me...Shame on me!!
No one accused you as far as I saw busymom. I really don't understand why we are being given 'clues' to guess the identity. Everyone is crossing the 'semi' Candy-ites off the list, which leaves: the regular posters on this board. This will eventually serve for us to start 'eating our own'. Where is the purpose in that? Is that the purpose? If so, why? I am new here as a poster - fairly new as a reader - I am completely missing the logic in this. Can someone explain? In case this post is missed, I will repeat it later in the day. I would really like an answer.
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